Isn’t life funny? It is cyclical with seasons and rhythms of sleep, wake, study, work, play, repeated over and over. Then it’s random with events and projects, people we encounter, situations that play out unexpectedly, etc. I thrive on routine but quickly get bored with it and long for the exciting and spontaneous.
Spring has arrived in our neck of the woods. The pear trees are blossoming, the daffodils have turned their bright yellow petals toward the sky and the children have been busying themselves with games of whiffle ball and badminton and unsuccessful attempts at flying kites. Our little seedlings are getting bigger and stronger and will soon make their way outdoors to face the elements. This season also means Easter and celebration of new life. The rabbits are having babies in the brush and the birds are scurrying to find bits of string and twigs for their nests. Spring also means TAXES, which is not as fun as watching nature.
My brown-eyed gentleman has been very hard at work over the last several weeks. The deadline for his firm’s big project is approaching and many sleepless nights have left him and his bleary-eyed co-workers with a little less energy than usual with which to greet these gorgeous spring days. I’ve caught up on my crocheting projects and read two novels since I have had no one to chat with in the evenings. He is such a talented architect and is amazingly loyal to his team. I hope they know what a gem they have!
A great friend came to visit a few weeks ago. Her son and Adrian have been excellent playmates for about 3 years. The boys romped and frolicked until their faces were red. They roasted marshmallows in the fire pit. They played Legos for hours and told silly jokes and went on a treasure hunt. It is so good to have friends that even though you don’t see each other for a long time, when you are reunited, you pick up where you left off, and it feels as natural as if you never were apart.
My muscles are screaming at me right now. I have been going to ballet classes and loving it but suffering the consequences of letting myself get so out of shape over the years. Dance is in me though. It’s deep in my soul and has not left me, just laid dormant during pregnancies and the other busyness of life. I love the reawakening, no matter how painful! I relish walking up the decades-old, creaky staircase to the studio on Saturday mornings. The view from the second floor studio window is fascinating. One can watch people bustling about the downtown area instead of watching the teacher, thereby not being prepared when the music plays and turning the wrong direction and bumping into a 6’4” sweaty muscular guy wearing spandex.
Gabe recently asked, “Mom, do you have any gunpowder?” I replied with a simple “no” as if I have heard this question a thousand times before but I struggled to stifle my curiosity. He darted back to his play and it took me a few moments to recall that Pa in “Little House in the Big Woods” uses gun powder and Gabe was simply emulating his favorite character from the story. I am not sure why he likes Pa so much rather than the children or even the animals depicted in the classic book. It must be all about the weapons. Gabe attended Adrian’s cub scout meeting with us last night, held in a catholic church. Of course, as soon as I was focused on something else, Gabe curiously made his way into one of the classrooms and returned again wielding a sword in its sheath, and a shield on his left arm. He informed me that he had left the helmet and chest-plate behind so as to remain inconspicuous.
Felicity has become nearly obsessed with playing the piano. She practices daily, although she only knows half of one song that I taught her several weeks ago. I started teaching her to read music but she is a bit impatient and just wishes her fingers would fly across the keys producing melodious patterns. She anticipates starting regular lessons soon. Until then, I will grit my teeth and endure yet another version of “Fur Elise.”
To get out of the boring routine and try something exciting, I’ve been experimenting with a sourdough starter and making my own yogurt. The yogurt is delicious and even better with raspberries and maple syrup! The sourdough…well, it’s more sour than dough. The kids call it “Mom’s Potion” and I think they’re weary of so many jars on the countertop. And I guess I need to come up with a new definition of exciting.
These are my thoughts for tonight and I’m amused.